Ye fearful saints, fresh courage take;
the clouds ye so much dread
are big with mercy, and shall break
in blessings on your head.

Judge not the Lord by feeble sense,
but trust him for his grace;
behind a frowning providence
he hides a smiling face.

His purposes will ripen fast,
unfolding ev'ry hour;
the bud may have a bitter taste,
but sweet will be the flow'r.

Blind unbelief is sure to err,
and scan his work in vain;
God is his own interpreter,
and he will make it plain.[1]

What could be more everyday suffering than griefs, sorrows, illnesses, and diseases? This means that Jesus carried not only our sin, but also our suffering to the cross. Yes, He absolutely suffered under the wrath of God for our sin; that is the dominant note of Isaiah 53. But He also took even the temporal effects of sin—earthly suffering—for us. Cancer, depression, loneliness, disability, abuse, sickness, sadness, betrayal, abandonment, conflict.

But what was it for you? When your suffering blocked out the sun, when you didn’t even know what to pray, when your world was one of confusion, fear, chaos, what was it like? I don’t know your deepest sufferings, but I do know your prayer:

Where are you God? Don’t You see? Don’t You care?

In those moments, when your fiancé dies, when your cousin commits suicide, when you’re diagnosed with cancer, when no one understands you, when your entire country has been ravaged and bodies are strewn in the streets and the temple of God is no more, what do we need the most? Someone to throw a truth grenade at us? To ‘just let go and let God’? To believe that ‘Everything happens for a reason’?

That’s not enough for me. A Band-Aid just won’t do. So we’re back at our question: “What does a suffering person need most?”